I had a meal big date with men I would exchanged a number of emails and lots of a g-chat with. We also Skyped-which i will be writing a post onâ¦we highly recommend Skype or iChat with a night out together if your wanting to spend time doing your tresses, especially if you’re balancing good deal’s of times. For reals.
Anyways, all was actually great from the “No Catfish right here top”. We looked like me, he looked like him, we laughed and determined we’re able to handle an actual day.
I happened to be timely, he had been late (whyyyyyyyyyâ¦stop getting LATE you guys)â¦and the guy texted me personally, “Just walking up!”
It had been flowing rainfall, performed I point out that? And freezing, no less than for Southern Ca requirements. In which he was using flip flops. SHOES. The.Horror.
I detest to appear very judgemental (too-late!) but as on the web daters, actually that what we perform? JUDGE! Assess 1st mail, basic phone call, the Facebook judge, looking for what is actually wrongâ¦instead of what is correct? Or is that just meâ¦haha.
Now, I’m not gonna defeat across the bush right here. In my opinion a man dressed in flip-flops in the rain is actually obnoxious. I might believe exactly the same about a girlâ¦but in which We stay, flip-flops and shoes never get store permanently and I also understand i have been responsible for a grocery shop run in sandals during a storm. The vast majority of guys i’m keen on are surfers, or outdoorsy and flip flops and jeans tend to be sorts of their consistent. Carry out If only he previously the clear presence of brain to put on real footwear? The reason why yes, yes i actually do. Performed the guy require a pedicure? Indeed, yes the guy did-all that outdoorsy-ness i prefer so much will not keep the feet looking too beautiful, obviously.
But I digress.
We chuckled loads and he is devastatingly good-looking. He’s got impressive table manners and requested the best concerns. Circumstances seemed to be going really because after we consumed, he asked basically desired to visit another place to get some good pumpkin cheesecake. We forgot about their sneakers and ended judgingâ¦and simply had a great time.
Whether or not he could be some body I would like to continue online dating features yet to-be determined, but if circumstances keep going well, possibly we’ll just have to get him a couple of Chuck Taylor’s for Christmas time and burn the flip flops. With really love, needless to say. And an alibi. ????